To jam and learn Abdul - Mom chords, your primary focus should be mastering these chords sequence: F, Cm, Gm, Cm, D, Gm, D, Bb and F. I suggest starting at a calm pace of 63 BPM, and as you gain confidence, approach the song's BPM of 126. For a balanced pitch, adjust the capo with respect to your voice and the song's key: G Minor.